Ketubot 64B

מיחזי כשכר שבת.

it does appear to be Shabbat wages. Consequently, the rabbis decreed that he should not give her money for Shabbat.

אמר ליה רבי חייא בר יוסף לשמואל: מה בין מורד למורדת? אמר ליה: צא ולמד משוק של זונות, מי שוכר את מי? דבר אחר: זה יצרו מבחוץ, וזו יצרה מבפנים.

On the same issue, R' Ḥiyya bar Yosef said to Shmuel: What is the reason for the difference in halakha between a rebellious man and a rebellious woman? According to all opinions, a rebellious wife’s fine is greater than that of a rebellious husband. He said to him: Go and learn from the market of prostitutes. Who hires whose services? Clearly, a man suffers more from lack of sex, and therefore the penalty for a rebellious wife is greater. Alternatively, when he desires sex, his inclination is noticeable on the outside, and therefore he feels shame as well as pain. But for her, her inclination is on the inside, and is not obvious.

מתני׳ המשרה את אשתו על ידי שליש ⁠— לא יפחות לה משני קבין חטין, או מארבעה קבין שעורין. אמר רבי יוסי: לא פסק לה שעורין אלא רבי ישמעאל, שהיה סמוך לאדום. ונותן לה חצי קב קיטנית, וחצי לוג שמן, וקב גרוגרות או מנה דבילה. ואם אין לו ⁠— פוסק לעומתן פירות ממקום אחר.

Mishnah: If someone feeds his wife by means of a third party serving as a trustee, while the husband himself is not living with her for some reason, he may not give her less than two kav of wheat or 4 kav of barley a week for her sustenance. R' Yosei said: Only R' Yishmael, who was near Edom, allotted her barley. And he must give her half a kav of legumes, and half a log of oil, and a kav of dried figs or the weight of a maneh of fig cakes. And if he does not have these fruits, he must apportion for her a corresponding amount of fruit from elsewhere.

ונותן לה מטה, מפץ ומחצלת. ונותן לה כפה לראשה, וחגור למתניה, ומנעלים ממועד למועד, וכלים של חמשים זוז משנה לשנה. ואין נותנין לה לא חדשים בימות החמה, ולא שחקים בימות הגשמים. אלא נותן לה כלים של חמשים זוז בימות הגשמים, והיא מתכסה בבלאותיהן בימות החמה. והשחקים ⁠— שלה.

And he must give her a bed, a soft mat, and a hard mat. And he must give her a cap for her head, and a belt for her waist, and new shoes from Festival to Festival, i.e., he must buy her new shoes each Festival. And he must purchase garments for her with a value of 50 dinars from year to year. The Mishnah comments: And he may not give her new clothes, which tend to be thick and warm, in the summer, nor worn garments in the winter, as these are too thin and she will be cold. Rather, he should give her clothes at a value of 50 dinars in the winter, and she covers herself with these same worn garments in the summer as well. And the leftover, worn clothes belong to her.